I hope it's not a matter of "false memory"
Years ago, there were a lot of discussion about people who were able to recover lost memories thru use of therapists. It was popular and a lot of results were in the news. But one case, which I think changed a lot of minds about such therapy involved a young woman who accused her church-pastor father of raping her when she was young. The daughter claimed that the father penetrated her. This accusation, needless to say, ripped the family apart as well as the church and community. Apparently, thru a therapist, she had "recovered" this terrible act in her memory. In order to investigate the case, the girl was examined but was found to be still a virgin--that she had never been penetrated in all of her life. It means no rape had occurred. I don't know what became of the broken relationships. I think the father forgave the daughter. But after that, I think nobody truly believed in that type of therapy anymore. "False memory" problem applies for both men and women--boys and girls. There has to be a way to ensure that false memories are separated by real memories. But what do I know?